People: character and behaviour

1. I know that I a tendency to a grudge, but I just can’t forget something bad a friend did to me recently. She has a selfish and doesn’t care sometimes how much she my feelings. I am finding it increasingly hard to my temper with her. But perhaps it might be better to my temper and let her know how I really feel? Silvia M.

2. I have always tried to others first and not to think of myself. I believe you should not lose your with your friends, but if someone seems to enjoy a fool out of you in front of other people, do those rules of friendship still apply? Stefan P.

3. I’m a little shy with new people, though not shy, but sometimes I think I the impression that I’m unfriendly. How can I convince people that I’m good and worth getting to know? Tom W

4. Should I talk about personal matters to my closest colleague at work? She is not very good at secrets and she has a very imagination. She always promises not to tell other people, but I’m not sure she always her word. Jan H.

5. My boyfriend has a really friendly, personality and a great of humour. He’s intelligent and has a -sharp mind. The perfect man. We’ve been together now for a year, and I like him a lot, but don’t love him any more. Should I be honest with him and tell him? Lydia T.

6. I think a friend is destroying himself with drugs. I feel a of responsibility towards him. He has always been loyal to me in good and bad times, which is a wonderful a of his personality. I feel I ought to contact the police or social services, but I don’t want to make a decision which I’ll regret later. Gary J.